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Unexpected Surgery

Mayo Clinic sign in foreground with summer flowers and entrance to St Mary's Hospital in background

With quick thinking, I packed Richard’s meds, a simple knitting project, both iPads, two power cords, and a water bottle before following the 1:00 am ambulance to Mayo’s emergency department at St. Mary’s Hospital. Having made this same trip with him 18 months ago, I remembered the long hours on uncomfortable chairs with a depleted phone battery, and I did not want to feel disconnected.

Unlike my sidewalk tumble a couple of weeks ago when the duration of my hospital visit was only two hours, his was in the Emergency Department (ED) for 12-hours. And, while my purple “glue job” was one and done, we were back at St. Mary’s two days later for out-patient surgery.

Despite the vastness of this world-renowned medical institution, with the thousands of staff required to keep 70 operating rooms functioning with the efficiency of high-tech assembly lines, his caregivers were attentive. They stayed with us for as long as was needed, offered thorough explanations, and provided care that never felt rushed.  The staff focused on his needs at that moment so that we could be home the same day where he is healing comfortably.

Graphic credit:  © Bill Klotz, Finance & Commerce, 2018.

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A Purple Glue Job

close up of a bruised black eye with purple glue on the eyebrow

Growing up in the house of a carpenter and across the street from a grandparent who was also a carpenter, it was an everyday occurrence to experience a construction project in process. When I was little, I loved using Dad’s red hand drill so that I could work right along; turning the handle, moving the bit through my very own piece of wood until the concrete garage floor stopped my progress. Then I would begin drilling again. Years later I learned that, in those days before power hand tools, Dad used that same hand drill but that the bit was mine alone as it was too dull from my rough work for his finer details.

While questions were always welcome in the workshop, I learned early on that interruptions were better once the power tool wound down or in between the swings of a hammer. And, it was best to wait until the wood was carefully aligned and the clamps were in place when a “glue job” was in progress.

My most recent “glue job” did not involve finely planed wood with a smear of Elmer’s Carpenter’s Wood Glue but, rather Dermabond – “a cyanoacrylate tissue adhesive that forms a strong bond across apposed wound edges, allowing normal healing to occur below.”. I am still not sure just how it happened that my eyebrow kissed the sidewalk but I can attest that (just as when we were kids) the concrete won when face and concrete collided. The result of a healthy morning outing with Richard in his electric chair and me clumsy footed, was a trip to the emergency department and three layers of light purple glue sealing my laceration.

Ouch!

New House

The Joys of Home Improvement: An Irrigation System

blue sprinkler head spraying water on green grass; pexel photo by Jonathan Cordova R

When I hear the word “irrigation” I think of the millions of gallons of water diverted from the Colorado River for agricultural purposes.  Those dramatic aerial photographs showing former waterlines etched high on rocky canyon walls versus today’s receded shores which expose miles of marina docks stretching into Lake Mead but landlocked, no longer accessible by water.  Or the reduced water levels of Lake Powell, visible even to our untrained eyes, as Richard and I explored the National Parks of southern Utah – Zion, Bryce, Capitol Reef, Canyonlands, and Arches, as well as a favorite small gem, Goblin Valley State Park.

My definition of irrigation involved thousands of acres of farmland and, until now, was not a small sprinkler system for our 5,532 square foot lot, of which 2,484 square feet is covered with house, screened porch, and garage.  But the installation of an irrigation system is our latest home improvement project, as a lawn care crew of six workers trenched our boulevard, front and two side lawns.  By the end of their workday, we had three irrigation zones (green, blue and pink) with water sprouting in precise directions from 20 heads covering lawn and landscaping.

An in-ground system was not part of our original building plans as I thought that with such a small lot I could manage the watering.  However, it is specifically because of the narrow strips of land, 102 feet long north to south and only 5 feet wide on each side of the house, that watering became an all-day job – set the sprinkler, adjust the spray, get wet, and repeat – time and again all day long every few days.  And that was in the coolish days of autumn.  I did not relish the prospect of dragging hoses through a long hot draught-like summer knowing what it might take to maintain a reasonably respectable lawn as required by Harvestview HOA guidelines.

And then, what was expected to be a simple job became more complicated.  Despite the front yard boasting a riotous collection of colored flags showing gas, electrical, cable, and fiber lines, Richard and I were connected to the Internet one moment and, in a snip of the black cable with a shovel, we were no longer linked to the greater world.  In the overall scheme of our lives, the loss of T-Mobile connectivity for approximately 24 hours was a minor, first-world problem.  The posting of this blog post, written in real time as work progressed, was delayed as the Knit+ Librarian exists in the cloud but that access was lost yesterday afternoon.  We joked that the greater challenge would be selecting our evening’s activities since our TV is ethernet based and therefore it was offline as well.  Nearly like the olden days.

T-Mobile arrived when expected this morning and re-established service.  Although the fiber optic cable is resting above ground and will be trenched into place next week.  We can only hope that the planting of the cable for internet connectivity does not interfere with the new irrigation system.  Or we could enter a Twilight Zone of never-ending interruptions in service.

Photo credit:  Pexel, Jonathan Cόrdova R.

New House

We had an adventure. . .

concrete mile post reading M137 nestled in green undergrowth

When Richard shared that he was researching wheelchairs my immediate response was “No”. My reaction was visceral. Rooted in denial as I simply could not allow the insidious nature of Parkinson’s Disease any more space in our lives. In that moment, the walls shifted inward. I saw his world – our world shrinking even more. While we always knew a chair would eventually be needed (I had even designed the new bathroom with a sufficient turning radius for easy rolling access to the walk-in shower) I had equated a wheelchair with a loss of mobility.

Richard patiently waited for my reactions to simmer and my list of objections to dwindle. Then, he explained how he viewed this purchase as expansive as it would allow him greater distance, not less. Recent walks in our new neighborhood have been limited to 1-2 blocks.  Even using his Ferrari-red carbon fiber walker for support, he is constrained by that day’s stamina and knowing we can only walk as far as the same return distance.

His primary research parameter was a 30-pound weight limit with a lithium battery. A limit set because I can easily lift the 10-pound, 2-ounce walker and struggle with the 40-pound bag of salt for the water softener. Coming in at 27-pounds, the Jazzy Carbon 27X is only slightly unwieldy when lifted into the rear of the Audi Q5 but certainly manageable.

And so, this morning, with clear blue skies (not even a puff of white) we set off. Out the screened porch door, down the alley to the street corner curbcuts, pass the pickleball courts to the asphalt spur that connects the Harvestview neighborhood to the Douglas Trail. This reclaimed railroad bed is framed on either side by forest vegetation – trees, flowers, and fruit bearing shrubs; with a haze of green growth sprouting in the gentle rolling fields just beyond. For nearly an hour, we enjoyed the sun dappled shade, under arching tree boughs.

We had an adventure. . .

Gardening · New House · Writing

Missing Rhubarb

terra cotta pots with herbs sitting on concrete patio

It is curious what you miss after a life change. A year ago today, a blog post announced the hole in the ground at Solstice Place. And, in the days and months that followed, we focused on choices – which granite slab would best anchor our kitchen, the paint color for the walls (Sherman Williams Zurich White), and the location of extra grab bars to safely grow old in place.

Among our many decisions, I deliberated about transplanting three key garden features from the First Street house. The four blueberry bushes – gifts from Momma; the chives – inherited with the house; and the rhubarb – from Grandma’s Vine Street garden transplanted to Rochester via my childhood house on Fourteenth Street. But in the end, timing simply didn’t comply. Too many other tasks demanded our focus as we decluttered for rightsizing, packed, and moved. Plus, there were just too many unknowns with a “little house on the prairie” (our one lone boulevard tree would not be planted until weeks after moving in.) Add to that, the vagaries of first-time membership in a Homeowners’ Association and thoughts of future gardens was remote.

And so, my Grandmother’s rhubarb (that is no longer mine) grows vibrant green on the south side of the new owner’s garage and not at Solstice Place. Rationally, I knew when we moved that I could easily source rhubarb from friends or through a visit to the farmers’ market. But a month into Spring and I haven’t done either. It was so much easier to walk out the door and simply twist and pull the needed stalks. Then finally last week, before returning from birthday celebrations at Momma’s, I harvested a small quantity of the tart vegetable from her garden. But rather than immediately gather flour and eggs and set to baking, I curiously treated them like stashed treasure vacillating between scones and crisp, with the crisp winning the baking challenge.

Even without these garden mainstays, I have been “playing in the dirt” at our new location. I planted the first four of what may be a proliferation of pots with companion pairings – Early Girl Tomato with purple basil, a combo of oregano, rosemary, and English thyme in another along with dill paired with parsley in a third, and then a pot filled with just sweet basil as you can never have too much of this fragrant culinary herb. Yet to come, this weekend, I will be filling the blue ceramic pots with bursts of color to set against the indigo backdrop of the front porch. I am still debating which perennials will best suit our two compact north facing front beds, currently landscaped with river rock and hosting one lone Hosta, three small grass mounds, and a hydrangea of yet unknown color.

All the while missing rhubarb.

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Christmas Eve Reflection

deep blue background with frosted plants in the foreground

Photo credit: pexels-pixabay

New House · Travel

$61 – exactly

stacks of quarters on a black granite countertop

From spring through fall at our First Street house, Richard, ever the car guy, would carefully coordinate the shade on the driveway and car washing to avoid direct sunshine and water spots. Later in the year, on those less frigid winter days, having collected quarters for months, he would use them at the self-service car wash thus keeping winter salt and slush to a minimum. These days, Med City Detail keeps our vehicles shiny and up to his standards. Since we no longer need this cash reserve sitting on the dresser, we decided a better use would be as an extra contribution to the Building Our Future-Beyond Ourselves church building fund.

As I lined up the coins from the Mason jar on the new kitchen island, I wondered if they might total 264 – just for kicks.  While I only reached $61, they did trigger a conversation about our 1989 western vacation, which mostly followed that historic highway and included touristy adventures such as dinner at the Big Texan in Amarillo, hiking the Painted Desert and Petrified Forest national parks, and spending the night at the Wigwam Motel in Holbrook, as well as a day at the Bob Bondurant School of Performance Driving. Definitely a chance to get your kicks on Route 66!


New House · Writing

Embracing Change: Our Move After 40 Years

We kept waiting to be sad. For that tsunami of nostalgia to overwhelm. After-all, we were leaving our first house, our abode of 40 years, where we had celebrated the births of nieces and nephews and mourned the death of beloved family and friends; undertook remodeling and renovation projects, planted and transplanted blueberry bushes and rhubarb, prepared countless meals (the menus for which ran the gamut from a quick bowl of popcorn to gourmet auction prep).

One person suggested that our move was not just a move but a life choice and that distinction felt accurate. This was a decision arrived at over time, necessitated by health challenges and softened by the hundreds of details that comprised our construction project which also served as salve to lighten the mental soreness of loss. While we missed the opportunity of a topping off ceremony on Solstice Place, we carefully monitored construction progress – from the hole in the ground to the final walk-through.  Each visit rooted us in the “rightness” of this change.

We spent a comfortable first night in the new house on September 25. We placed the bed slats on floor, having first put down an old flannel sheet to protect the new LVF (luxury vinyl flooring), followed by the twin springs and the king comfort mattress. The result – a tad lower than sleeping on the couch but higher than a futon. This odd predicament, of being bed-less (that is without a frame) was due to our decision to have the two antique metal bedstead that were once in my Grandma’s house, stripped via glass bead blasting and then dipped to powder coat them a rich forest-green. During their 100+ years, the color has gone from chocolate brown (the color in my childhood, as well as Momma’s memories of her early years in the 4th street house) to yellow, to creamy peach, and now to forest-green. Momma estimates these may have been her parents’ first purchase after arriving in the U.S.A. from Switzerland in July 1922, as by October Grandma was giving birth to Billie and most certainly had a bed for this home delivery.

Now, a month after closing, we have most (not quite all) of the boxes unpacked and flattened. Finding a place for everything has required expanding our decluttering skills yet again and each time we cannot find space we admit that we simply have too much stuff.

Still to be done – placing our eclectic collection of prints, paintings, and objets d’art. Once that is complete Solstice Place will be open for visits.

Art · New House

Packing Art

wood framed lithogrpah depicting a girl sitting on a front porch on a summer evening

The realization, last November, that we needed to move from our multi-story, 100-year-old home to a one-level house triggered rigorous study in the current phenomenon of decluttering.

We found new users for Richard’s heavy tools – the table saw with an assortment of blades purchased over decades, a planer, grinder, belt sander, and more. I lost count of the trips to the waste-to-energy site delivering remnants of 40-years of projects that we kept “just in case.” There were also hazardous liquids (turpentine and motor oil) as well as a Maxwell coffee can of 16-ounce lead ingots left over from Dad’s reloading days. But, even after months of work and knowing that all of the sorting and pitching was in preparation for a move, the result of these tasks simply made our First Street house feel more spacious. There was more room in the closets, and the cupboards no longer harbored expired spices. It was not until I took the art off the bedroom walls that the upcoming move felt real.

Having met Richard at an art gallery in June 1981 and with a favorite pastime of visiting galleries, museums, and street fairs, we have a lot of artwork. From lithographs to pastels, from blown glass to hand thrown pottery, our collection is eclectic. While these pieces will never garner millions at Sotheby’s, each offers a story. Our wedding present to ourselves purchased at the Junction City art fair in October 1983; a Murano glass plate – the only souvenir we purchased while on a family trip to Switzerland in September 1991; artwork by friends and Richard’s own creations. With the help of a friend, we will move our collection not chancing any of these beauties to the packers and movers who will pack up our lives in just 10 days.

As I remove these treasures and carefully bubble wrap each one, I remember, with joy, how each piece came to grace our space, making a house a home.


Artist’s note:  Evening on Twenty-seventh, lithograph 66/100 Larry Welo © 1982

Gardening · New House · Reading

A Gathering of Poetry | August 2025

a small green bowl filled with dusty blueberries

It was the best of summer times – with plentiful potatoes and just the right sized zucchini, it was the worst of summer times – with chipmunks stealing succulent blueberries and cucumbers that overwhelmed.  Almost making me regret planting this last garden on First Street all the while exploring options for next summer’s raised beds on Solstice Place. While carrots were not part of my planting plan, Leah Naomi Green’s poem is fitting for this month’s Gathering of Poetry.

Please excuse my blatant plagiarism of the hallowed Dickens Tale and for being a tad bit late in joining Bonnie and Kat for this Gathering of Poetry.

Bibliographic credit:  Green, Leah Naomi. The More Extravagant Feast.  © 2020 Graywolf Press.